Get Over YOUR Fear of Public Speaking

So what do you say to yourself just before you're gonna give a speech or a presentation or just before a meeting?

Do you think that if you tell yourself before a speech that "I don’t know what’s going on.. I am not sure about my content..I am not confident.", it really makes you give a really good presentation or a performance?

No, it doesn’t!

Then you might think that actually positive self-talk does.

I mean that’s what I knew for a long time. Because so many people suggested that just before a presentation or a speech I should tell myself, "I'm gonna rock..I'm the man..I'm the best speaker in the world..I'm gonna show them".. I did for a long time but there is a problem in this positive self-talk because it’s a dominating self-talk. Now when you have a dominating positive self-talk, what is happening is that you are thinking about yourself that "I'm the best..I'm.." its about me me me.. But I tell you one thing. Who is the speech for? The audience. You're forgetting about the audience.

Listen to me, you should not think about only yourself but your self-talk should be about the audience. So you should not think about "I'm gonna rock..I'm gonna show them..'' but your self-talk should be "I'm gonna do well..I'm gonna do excellent because I'm gonna help them." When you have this helping self-talk, you're thinking about the audience .So you don’t care about how you look on stage, you don’t care about your hairstyle, you don’t care about anything. You're caring about the audience.

So when you have that, the audience can feel it. They'll get the best result from you and you will be remembered.

This is the speaking tip for you for this week.

This is Bishal Sarkar, your Excellence coach, reminding you that "It’s Not About Perfection, It’s About Connection."

About the author: Bishal Sarkar, popularly known as “The Excellence Guy”, is called the best motivational speaker of Bangalore India. Bishal is the creator of “Present like a Champ Boot Camp” (The Best Public Speaking Course in Bangalore) where he teaches the participants the step-by-step easy-to-follow process of presentation skills success. He regularly speaks to professionals, youth groups, corporate groups, and trains people from various walks of life and brings out the excellence within them. As the author of the book “I Love Public Speaking”, Bishal now teaches professionals how to overcome fear of public speaking and deliver powerful presentations using the proven formula of speaking & presentation success, through his public speaking courses & communication skills classes in Bangalore. He also helps aspiring speakers by teaching them How to become a motivational speaker in India. People say that he has designed the best presentation skills classes & public speaking workshops in Bangalore. For enrolling in Bishal Sarkar’s “Present like a Champ Boot Camp”, call us on +91-88803-61526.

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