Daily Mentor reader Sivnath asks:
“Good afternoon Bishal. I’ve been reading your daily mentor emails for last 3 months now. Best thing I do in the morning. I look forward to your emails. Also I enrolled for your July workshop, glad I got a spot. Quick question for you, how can I overcome jealousy? I look at other leaders with more success and feel jealous. Why? And how can I overcome this negativity?”
Good question.
Here’s my answer:
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“Jealously is nothing but desire rushing in the wrong direction with lost focus. Most people that are jealous never achieve the goal they’re jealous about. Even if they do, they do it to “show” the friends/relatives/enemies, hence they’re not happy anyway EVEN AFTER achieving the goal.
That’s why they remain jealous forever.
I spent years of my life being jealous of others more successful in some areas. You know why? Because I was not confident about MY own life, so I was busy looking at other peoples’ lives on whatsapp, FB and newspaper & TV. It’s nothing but a symptom of low self-esteem. Once I found my purpose in life, I was no more jealous---now I became inspired. Big difference!
And once you start living an inspiring life, now you achieve YOUR goals and help OTHERS achieve theirs. That’s the trait of a great leader.
The only time a man becomes busy looking at other people’s plates is when he’s not in love with the food of his own plate. Pretty simple!
Glad you’re coming to the workshop, I can’t wait to serve you powerfully. I will make you the kind of speaker that OTHERS feel jealous of. ;) ”
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There you go. That’s how you overcome your own jealousy.
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About the author: Bishal Sarkar, popularly known as “THE KING OF CONFIDENCE”, is called the best motivational speaker of Bangalore India. Bishal is the creator of “Present like a Champ Boot Camp” (The Best Public Speaking Course in Bangalore) where he teaches the participants the step-by-step easy-to-follow process of public speaking success. He regularly speaks to professionals, youth groups, corporate groups, and trains people from various walks of life and brings out the excellence within them. As the author of the book “I Love Public Speaking”, Bishal now teaches professionals how to overcome fear of public speaking and deliver powerful presentations using the proven formula of speaking & presentation success, through his public speaking courses & communication skills classes in Bangalore. He also helps aspiring speakers by teaching them How to become a motivational speaker in India. People say that he has designed the best presentation skills classes & public speaking workshops in Bangalore. For enrolling in Bishal Sarkar’s Best Public Speaking Course in Bangalore, call us on +91-88803-61526.
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