A great way to RUIN your day is to spend it by COMPARING yourself to others for no reason.
After you practice doing that, your mind automatically DOES it.
And then you realize, most people have:
> Better looks than you
> More success than you
> Bigger following than you
> Wider-smiling wife than you (true?)
> Higher level of status than you
> Deeper knowledge than you
> More support from family than you
> Fewer problems in life than you
And you keep thinking.
And comparing.
Constantly.
While you're eating food at night, you think about that facebook status of that friend who went to UAE at that amazing restaurant. It affects you emotionally.
Mein kaha para hoon yaar" you think.
The comparison game goes on and on.
RESULT?
You get so bogged down in this trap that you have less energy left to ACTUALLY improve yourself.
You no more improve your skills.
You no more deepen your knowledge.
You no more expand your vision & dreams.
RESULT OF THAT?
You slowly (but gradually) join the "club of average people."
It's a tough truth. But truth.
What if you stopped comparing yourself to others and SPENT all your energy in acquiring a NEW skill (like public speaking) so you can make progress?
What if you stopped comparing yourself to others and STARTED expanding your vision according to YOUR heart instead of setting goals based on what a guy at a seminar teaches?
What if you stopped comparing yourself to others and DECIDED to live your life in your TERMS by being the MAN that you're destined to become?
Isn't that a better, happier & higher path is life?
Why settle for less by comparing?
Sachin didn't compare himself with Dradiv.
Steve Jobs didn't compare himself with Bill Gates.
I didn't compare myself with other people in my field.
What would happen if you started comparing your current self to...YOUR POTENTIAL?
...and go for it!!!
Do you think you'd take more confident actions?
Do you think it'd excite you more?
Do you think you'd live life your way?
What are you waiting for?
1. Spend a few times answer this question: "WHAT IS MY POTENTIAL?"
2. And then ask: "WHAT AM I GOING TO DO TODAY THAT WILL HELP ME MOVE FORWARD TOWARD MY POTENTIAL?"
And then spend the rest of your day doing that. Your action must match your ambition.
All the best.
About the author: Bishal Sarkar, popularly known as “THE KING OF CONFIDENCE”, is called the best motivational speaker of Bangalore India. Bishal is the creator of “Present like a Champ Boot Camp” (The Best Public Speaking Course in Bangalore) where he teaches the participants the step-by-step easy-to-follow process of public speaking success. He regularly speaks to professionals, youth groups, corporate groups, and trains people from various walks of life and brings out the excellence within them. As the author of the book “I Love Public Speaking”, Bishal now teaches professionals how to overcome fear of public speaking and deliver powerful presentations using the proven formula of speaking & presentation success, through his public speaking courses & communication skills classes in Bangalore. He also helps aspiring speakers by teaching them How to become a motivational speaker in India. People say that he has designed the best presentation skills classes & public speaking workshops in Bangalore. For enrolling in Bishal Sarkar’s Best Public Speaking Course in Bangalore, call us on +91-88803-61526.
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