Are You An EXAMPLE or A Warning?

As India’s Public Speaking Expert, I get to speak and interact with a lot of ultra-successful people and around the world.

Yes, most people say: “Yes I am committed to my success, I am willing to pay the price for my success.”

I would agree that everyone “wants” success--- but a very small fraction of this people is willing to do whatever it takes.

Let me explain.

Recently I was on a call with a gentleman from Bangalore named Rajesh Tiwari. He called my office and requested for a quick call with me. Please understand that for my busy schedule I talk to a very limited number of people currently on phone.

But we gave this man a shot- and my lovely assistant Anupama put Rahesh’s name on my calendar 2 days later.

2 days later when I was on a call with him, he talked a good game of WHY he wants to become a Super-Confident Speaker & Presenter. He talked a good game of what he’s tries by himself and has failed a speaker. He informed me about his consistent failure in presentations in front of his VPs and clients. He talked a good game of frustration.

So, later I gave him an opportunity to join me in one of our programs “Rock The Stage: Ultimate Formula” and he seemed pretty interested. And he said: “I know this is the right solution for me, and I need half an hour for making the investment.”

Well 2 hours later we spoke again and he changed his mind. He said: “I don’t think this is the right time for me. I want to keep doing what I am doing. I was just looking!”

Just looking?

Someone who stutters out of stage fear was “just looking?”

Someone who sweats in front of managers was “just looking?”

I told you--- most people say: “Yes I am committed to my success, I am willing to pay the price for my success.”

I would agree that everyone “wants” success--- but a very small fraction of this people is willing to do whatever it takes.

As a coach, I did whatever it took for me to show him the vision--- but he refused to move forward.

Cool!

You can take a horse to the water, but you can't make the horse drink the water. Would you agree?

Our society is filled with people like Rajesh.

They speak a lot, do VERY little.

The problem is that people like these are parents as well. Rajesh told me he has a daughter.

My question is: “Is Rajesh an example for this daughter? Or a BIG WARNING?”

People like these smoke and advise others “Don’t smoke. Smoking is bad for health.”

People like these never take actions and advise others: “The key to success it to take actions.”

People like these have no clue where they are going in their lives and advise others: “Be clear about what you want in life.”

People like these abuse their wives and tell their children: "Always respect women."

Do you know someone like this?

How do you deal with these people?

Do you have someone in your family who is a BIG WARNING?

Share your thoughts below in a comment--- or if it’s too personal, write to me: Bishal@BishalSarkar.com

Let me end with a question:

About the author: Bishal Sarkar, popularly known as “The Excellence Guy”, is called the best motivational speaker of Bangalore India. Bishal is the creator of “Present like a Champ Boot Camp” (The Best Public Speaking Course in Bangalore) where he teaches the participants the step-by-step easy-to-follow process of public speaking success. He regularly speaks to professionals, youth groups, corporate groups, and trains people from various walks of life and brings out the excellence within them. As the author of the book “I Love Public Speaking”, Bishal now teaches professionals how to overcome fear of public speaking and deliver powerful presentations using the proven formula of speaking & presentation success, through his public speaking courses & communication skills classes in Bangalore. He also helps aspiring speakers by teaching them How to become a motivational speaker in India. People say that he has designed the best presentation skills classes & public speaking workshops in Bangalore. For enrolling in Bishal Sarkar’s “Present like a Champ Boot Camp”, call us on +91-88803-61526.

India’s Public Speaking Expert